Comments on: inkdick: june 21 2009 an angry guilt

By: BlueCoon

BlueCoon — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 17:22:53 +0000

It’s probably just hard to be mad. I’m sure he was just living his life like you’d expect him to.

By: Suzi

Suzi — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 13:03:45 +0000

My grandmother passed away last month, and I was never hit with the anger stage. Sometimes these things just happen. I know he was much to young to have already passed on, and I know that you looked up to him, and he was an inpiration to many, many people. But honestly, there is nobody you could be angry at. It was an accident, maybe anger at the situation, but still… don’t feel guilty about being angry, just remember the good times, and the amazing things that he taught you. Thats what he would’ve wanted. :)

By: aaron

aaron — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 06:01:59 +0000

yeah, i could see skipping anger in this case. i mean, who would you be angry at?

By: Shazzbaa

Shazzbaa — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 05:16:04 +0000

Last I heard, they’re saying now that not everyone goes through all the stages, and rarely in the “proper” order. Maybe you won’t get angry until years from now, or maybe you just won’t ever get angry about this, and that doesn’t mean you didn’t feel real loss or sadness. It just means you dealt with it in a different way.

By: Big Josh

Big Josh — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 03:35:39 +0000

I’ve felt guilty that I haven’t cried about it :(